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It\u2019s somewhat bittersweet this year, as our youngest daughter starts 8th grade. In our school district the kids go to elementary school from Kindergarten through 6th grade. Then they move to\u00a0the 7th grade building. The following year, they move to the 8th grade building (on the other side of town). Finally they go to the High School and stay there for the next four years. So this morning, our youngest daughter just left for her last first day<\/em> before High School.<\/p>\nOn the one hand, I\u2019m really excited for her. Middle school is a hugely different<\/i> experience than elementary school. The schools are larger. There are more opportunities. The kids are responsible for their schoolwork in a way that elementary kids just can\u2019t be. Sports play a huge role in the extracurricular landscape. Heck, there are boys<\/i> (although thankfully our current middle-schooler is pretty cool in that regard).<\/p>\n
I swell\u00a0with pride as I realize she\u2019s becoming this totally capable, together, and amazing young woman.<\/p>\n
But the other side of me misses my little kids. For so many years I drove the kids to school and I picked them up. They would come running out to\u00a0the car, despite the rules against running on the sidewalks. They would excitedly tell me about the big happenings<\/i> of the day\u2026interrupting each other and laughing the entire time. Our car was filled with the happy chatter of kids who were engaged with what they were doing\u2026loving every minute of their lives.<\/p>\n
We would race home to get snacks and get changed\u2026only to run out the door to various sports practices. From 2:30pm when I left the house until nearly 9:00pm I would be driving kids, dropping them off, picking up other kids, and putting in dozens of miles of driving all within ten miles of our house. I became a master at getting the kids snacks in the car without breaking every nutrition rule in the book. I would run my errands while they were at practices. Everything was chaotic, but it was a joyful chaotic that I wouldn\u2019t have traded for the world.<\/p>\n
Today marks the\u00a0last day of that kind of chaos.<\/p>\n
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Now Colleen goes off to school at 7:20am. From then until 5:30pm she\u2019s at school followed by volleyball practice. Lance leaves for High School\u00a0school\u00a0at 6:30am and follows that with\u00a0Cross Country practice. Everybody returns home from sports practices and\/or work around 6:00pm. Then we start our evening routine. So instead of the chaos of summer or the rapid-fire errands and driving of the school year of days gone by, Hectic Grandson and I will have quieter days at home.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ll admit it, I\u2019m older now\u2026I\u2019m still crazy-busy…but it\u2019s a different kind of busy. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t like it. Heck, I don\u2019t think I could do the things that I did 20+ years ago anymore. But there are times when I miss the utter chaos of mornings and afternoons. I miss the excited discussions of who did what to whom<\/i> at school. I miss snacking in the car and me being that weird Dad<\/i> who used a hand-vacuum to clean out his van in the parking lot as the kids were running out of the school.<\/p>\n
I know I\u2019m putting a bright, shiny face on a time in our lives when things were utterly crazy\u2026but that\u2019s how I choose<\/i> to remember them. So sure, sometimes I long for them.<\/p>\n
On the other hand, today\u2019s new chapter has so many possibilities. With just two school-aged kids living in the house it\u2019s much easier to be fully involved with them. They may not like it all the time (harder to slip under the radar etc.), but I love it. I\u2019m much more aware of who their friends are, what really<\/i> interests them, and what their dreams and aspirations are. I relish the times that we get to spend together in a way that having eight kids in the house didn\u2019t allow.<\/p>\n
So rather than being a nostalgic, whimpering old man I\u2019m choosing to look at this year as an opportunity to enjoy this last year of Lance\u2019s High School and Colleen\u2019s last year as a middle schooler. I\u2019ve always been a cup half-full kind of guy, even if I have to downsize my cup to get there. Unlike prior years where I had to use a thimble to be half-full, this year feels like a pretty good-sized glass. There is so much to be thankful for!<\/p>\n
So what about you\u2026what are your plans for the school year? Are the kids back in school yet? Is your school shopping done? Most importantly, what are you most thankful for as this school year starts?![\"apple-256261_640\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.hectic-dad.com\/hectic-dad\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/apple-256261_640.jpg?resize=400%2C264&ssl=1\")
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